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Halloween History & Origin

Wednesday, October 31st, 2007

Hey ! It’s Halloween—time of the year that’s absolutely freakish and screamin fun. A time when the line between the world of the living and the world of the dead is the thinnest and you’re sure to feel the freak and scare with ghosts, goblins, witches and warewolves prowling all around—both in their selves and in costumes. Halloween is an occasion to let loose the naughtier sides in you—playing pranks, sprucing up in freaky costumes and scaring the wits out of your frenz & folks. The chill of rib-tickling thrill, a nip of spine-chilling jitters and a good fare of full-blooded scare (ooh, i like that) is at the heart of Halloween celebrations.

Now today’s Halloween isn’t the same as it was 2000 years ago. The history and origin of Halloween lie way back in centuries in the ancient Celtic New Year’s festival, Samhain. So much so that the customs of today’s Halloween are also rooted in the ancient customs of the Celts during Samhain, which was said to mark the end of Summer. Samhain, the Celtic New Year was celebrated every year on October 31—the day, which the Celts believed, was a day of the rise of the dead, when the deceased would wander the land to possess earthly souls. To keep these spirits at bay, the Celts dressed up as ghouls and monsters and put out all lights in their homes. With that, they ventured out as mischievous and wayward undoers willfully wantoning peace and property. The Celtic priests or Druids also built bonfires on this day and offered sacrifices. The idea behind all these was, of course, to scare away the spirits of the dead and avoid being “possessed” ! Now if you’re brainy enough, it won’t be hard for you to guess that the modern tradition of wearing costumes on Halloween traces back to this ancient Celtic practice !

The sinister attitudes of the Celts on Samhain toned down over the ages to give way to the less menacing attributes of today’s Halloween. The playfulness and fun side of Halloween was first brought to America by the Irish immigrants around 1840. Like for instance, the popular tradition of trick-or-treating on Halloween came from the Irish. This had been ‘gifted’ to the United States by the Irish immigrants who fled their country during the potato famine. The Irish celebration of Halloween or the Hallow E’en (evening of the Hallow), as it’s called in Ireland, means All Hallows Eve, or the night before the ‘All Hallows’. All Hallows Day is on November 1, and is also known as All Saint’s Day (a day to honor all the Catholic saints). ‘Hallow’ is an Old English word, meaning ‘saint’. November 2 is the All Soul’s Day—a day which honors all Christians who no longer live and were not saints. And the period of October 31 to November 2 is known as the Hallow Tide. Now, on All Hallows Eve or Halloween, the Irish beggars went asking for food or money from the rich. If refused, they were threatened to be destroyed by the evil spirits. And, of course, nobody wants to take a chance on Halloween. So soul-cakes or currant buns and candy bags chockablock with goodies were kept ready for the HalloweenDay.

Some even say that trick-or-treating sprang up in the Middle Ages and was called ‘souling’. On All Soul’s Day (November 2), Christians used to go begging from door to door for soul-cakes or the currant buns. In return, they prayed for the souls of the dead ancestors of the family who obliged. However, the term trick-or-treat gained popularity only as late as the late 1930s in the context of Halloween.

The very popular Jack O’ Lantern of today’s Halloween also has their origins in Ireland. As the legend goes, a notorious con-man named Jack once fooled Satan on climbing a tree and consequently trapped him by carving a cross in that tree trunk. He then extorted the Devil into agreeing never to tempt him again as a deal for getting him down. But, later when Jack died, not only were the doors of heaven closed to him because of his wrongdoings, Satan also denied him entry at hell due to the trickery Jack inflicted on him. However, Satan gave him a glowing ember or coal to light his way through earth. Jack put the glowing ember into a hollowed-out turnip and walked the land endlessly. This came to be known as the ‘Jack of the lantern’ or Jack O’ Lantern. Later, when this concept reached America, the turnip was replaced by pumpkins. Today, both on Samhain and Halloween, Jack O’ Lanterns are placed on the front steps of houses to scare away the ghosts. Quite a blazing thrill, isn’t it ?

Well when Halloween is in,  black cats *thank God i have white lil’ Snowy* will often cross your way or jump right before you from nowhere or give out a spine-chilling whine rending the silence of the night. Now Halloween may be a feline favorite, given the number of black cats you’ll spot during the Halloween days; but this association of black cats with the Halloween festival has its origin in the ancient Celtic beliefs. The Celts believed that the spirits of the dead shacked in animals (which were mostly black cats) during Samhain and Halloween. And therefore, people avoided meeting black cats on the way as it was believed to bring tough luck.* So be sure not to bump into one tonight frenz* Some even held the view that witches disguised as black cats and went about casting spells on Halloween night. However, black cats were convincingly considered faithful followers of witches at all times and have thus assumed an ominous role over the ages till date.

So far for the tidbits of Halloween history and origin, but there’s more to this fun day than just plain facts and beliefs. Halloween is an occasion to go wild and whacky, fun and freaky, to do crazy things, play pranks and get away with it. It’s an excuse to behave like a kid without having raised a brow ! Halloween is thus as much an adult’s favorite as it’s in rage with the kids. Nevertheless, there had been forces in history, and there still are, which try to abate the crazier and unrestrained aspects of Halloween. Not quite untrue that Halloween celebrations go over the top at times and fail to be in good taste and sense. Therefore, in some way, it calls forth the need to hold back the reins and keep it within limits. The fun and frenzy is acceptable as long as it stays within sensible bounds and does not cause hurt to anyone or anything. In this regard, it is convenient to note that Halloween is celebrated on October 30 instead of the usual October 31 if the latter falls on a Sunday. This is done to keep off all conflicts arising between the Church services and Halloween observances whatsoever.

I personaly think it’s like the English version of the Chinese Lunar month, xcept that it’s more fun den Freaky…So, ppl, im heading to Mojo tonight…wat ru all waiting for? Put on ur party "claws, paws"….vampire fangs and devil horns and Join me tonight there~

HAPPY HALLOWEEN TO ALL! *Shrieks like a witch*…*cough cough*

Halloween in Kuching : PArt 1

Tuesday, October 30th, 2007

Halloween is creeping up and its tomorrow!!! Being here, i’ve never celebrated halloween and it isnt a huge celebration as it is very rare for the past few years, but i can see improvements!!

Mojo is celebrating it and it’s supposed to be one of the most happening events in Kuching for the year 2007. Many places are holding this Halloween Event as well, like Amoebar and V4. If im not mistaken Amoebar’s Theme is "Scary Halloween" or some sort…b u t , im  diggin’ Mojo’s event coz there’s gonna be a Fear Factor Competition and also we’re lookin at attractive prizes for the Best Dressed as well….its jus a shame we don’t have clothes for Rent here in little laid back Kuching. I can see it growing tho…and we’ll juz wait n see how happenin lil Kuchingnians can BE! You’ll be surprised….im juz so eager to catch a glimpse of the attire and costumes tomorrow.

I’ve got my costume all planned out…and wanna guess wat it is? Well, you won’t be surprised…cos it’s so meL to wear it~ Anyways, FREE FLOW OF COCKTAILS to everyone who has a costume…so be fun, be happening, be CReatiVE…See you At MOJO , people…

MY perception of awaiting….

Monday, October 29th, 2007

I finally understand the feelin of bein left behind, the feelin of unable to pursue , unwillingness of acception and fulfillment and strong-point rejection.

The reality is as if im seein it for the 1st time…coz to only feel how one feels, i have to put myself in their shoes. There’s no reason to force…no reason to hope…like the song in my profile, no matter how hard i cry, he cant hear me. Everything’s like a chain linked togeder to make me open the door to fly away beyond the clouds and see the rays of hope somewhere along the rainbow, tellin me,Mel… i can do it, i have IT!~

Someone has made me realise and woken me up from my dreams and fantasy…coz i see myself in tat one thing i cannot pursue. Its really cruel of a being to behave this way, but this is a normal reaction as an act of defense…n not wanting anymore commitment and to avoid misundstandings.

L-O-V-E CANNOT be force, its a natural feeling tat 2 ppl share together…wen it only works one way, it’ll fail and i mean it wen i classify it as suicide…as it affects urself not only mentally but also physically, alot of abuse will take place. Crying is fine, as "sad" hormones are released in the tears we shed, but how long can we continue to cry for that ONE person? Forever? No, life is too beautiful to juz sit and lay back worryin about juz one person who doesnt give a damn about Your Feelings…coz he/she has no connection in any way u feel about him/her. So, we shud stand up for our rights….mainly,to make it work, its about the sharing, the connection and the give & take…

So, no more forcing…no more hoping…no more xpectations…

I believe strongly in these phrases ;

~Let the flow of the stream lead you to the big oceans…

~ And if he/she is urs, he/she will come back one day…

Patience is all we need if we intend to really await a person and if we are so strong at will But ask urself  questions to decide the "waiting"

- IS IT WORTH THE WAIT?

-  DOES SHE/HE SEES ME THE WAY I SEE HIM/HER?

- DO I MEAN ALOT TO HER/HIM AS SHE/HE MEANS ALOT TO ME?

- DO I AT LEAST COME ACROSS HIS/HER MIND?

- WILL SHE/HE EVER LOVE ME OR AT LEAST LEARN TO LOVE ME?

The answer will come to you….in time…OBVIOUSLY,if ur answers are mostly "No’s" den, u know wat u shud do…but again, the decision is urs to make…

And don’t even be so stupid to give the whole world to him/her , coz money CANNOT buy LOVE~

Good luck to You and to ME…i am still trying and trust me, i am fighting this at my very best, and learning to fly each day…one day, i’ll be able to fly high enough to see the beautiful horizon…

sigh~

Sunday, October 28th, 2007

NO MEANS NOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*frus*

Fried Veges!

Sunday, October 28th, 2007

The 7 Fairiez - 6 all abandon me, left me to be alone……

All of them all fried fried till cRiSpy adi looo….all the 6 other veges….SO, MEL have to ‘add oil’ - in mandarin meanin "jia you"….so i can join them to become fried and crispy!!!

Anyways, sistaz, im so happy for all of you and i hope tat these 6 guys tat u have met will give u a lifetime full of happiness….GUYS, time is precious, nomo playing around adi…its time to get serious…so, bring it out and show the lovE!

Guys, u comin into my sistaz life has created a special effect on them, they became ‘mutants from ur radiation’ , they have turned from a little caccoon-ed creature and bcam butterflies…u showed them light and showered love so everlasting tat it makes me so envious…nomo heartaches k…promise me…

I’m Next…..in a long long time to come…i’ll catch up, dont worry ….but ;

" Selagi ada cinta di hatiku, selagi ada rindu yang membara, selagi ku mampu bertahan kasih, ku terima segalanya walaupun hatiku merana….."

-meanin-

As long as there’s still love for you, as long as im still missing you , as long as i still can hang onto this love, i’ll accept everything, even though my heart is aching….juz as long as there’s my L-O-V-E-

Ah, now i know the true meanin…

Wednesday, October 24th, 2007


Once in a while
You are in my mind
I think about the days that we had
And i dream that these would all come back to me
If only you knew every moment in time
Nothing goes on in my heart
Just like your memories
How I want here to be with you
Once more

You will always gonna be the one
And you should know
How I wish I could have never let you go
Come into my life again
Oh, don’t say no
You will always gonna be the one in my life
So true, I believe i can never find
Somebody like you
my first love

Once in awhile
Your are in my dreams
I can feel the your warm embrace
And I pray that it will all come back to me
If only you knew every moment in time
Nothing goes on in my heart
Just like your memories
And how I want here to be with you
Once more
yah yah yah

You will always be inside my heart
And you should know
How I wish I could have never let you go
Come into my life again
Please don’t say no
Now and forever you are still the one
In my heart
So true, I believe I could never find
Somebody like you
My first love
oh oh

You will always gonna be the one
And you should know
How I wish I could have never let you go
Come into my life again
Oh, don’t say no
You will always gonna be the one
So true, I believe I could never find
Now and forever

- First Love ( English Version) -

An ice-cream story

Sunday, October 21st, 2007

Mom says ;

Haiyoooooooo….my dear gal work so hard! I got a treat for you…go to the freezer…

*Walks to the fridge and opens up the freezer*

My jaws dropped to see so much ice-cream….all sorts of flavor…and bein the ever-so-greedy-for-food-MEl, i screwed open the ice-cream cover , took a big bowl and scooped huge spoonfuls of the sweet delight into it.

Ran up to my room and dug my spoon into the bowl of ice-cream and without blinkin an eye, it was in my mouth…and at the taste of the ice-cream, i-SCREAMED!!!!

It took me quite sometime to swallow it was…..EWwwwwwwwwww!!!! It was a horrid taste…like un-sweetened ice-cream with pieces of grated sand inside…

I ran downstairs to the kitchen to open the fridge and MY MOM BOUGHT LOW FAT ICE-CREAM FOR MEEEEEEE!!!!!! ***SCREAMS***

Mom says im puttin on weight , tats why she buys all low-fat products to replace my diet!!!! *SweatS*

Barlowgirl, I LIKE

Thursday, October 18th, 2007

Discovered a new girl band….

BARLOWGIRL…consisting of 3 sisters ;

Barlowgirl: Alyssa Barlow (vocals, piano, Wurlitzer piano, percussion); Lauren Barlow (vocals, drums); Rebecca Barlow (guitar, bass, background vocals).

Their music are a lil’ rock and they have their pop side…with a sprinkle of jazz…i think their music are a little lacking but their lyrics make up for it!

They write songs based on life issues as one of the sisters suffered from an eatin disorder before and how they turn to God for the light to lead their way.

Average Girl is one of their songs and in it, their standing up for modesty and purity in this SEX driven world! Its like a modern stand-up straight with ur hands-on-ur-hip-side anthem for the ppl in the Dating world…Gosh ppl, Love isnt all about SEX ! C’mon!

They’re not like the praise and worship bands tat pop out like buttercups in the morning rays…they juz POPPED out from nowhere, seriously. An amazing band, i tell you…and their songs reflects so much in live tat i bet everyone goes thru it. Read their lyrics den u’ll understand the meanin behind them…coz everyone of their songs has this possesive and magnetic force feild tat juz makes u wanna Wake up, open ur eyes and look beyond the world….do i sound like a preacher??? Read the easy-related messages in each song…

Evryone can listen to their music, yeah and gain inspiration from them…now, this is wat out parents wud classify as "good music from the boombox"…and not those "yeah, yeah, baby baby, i wanna f**k u, Get Wet" music! HAHA!!! - sorry Akon fans-

To me, BaRLOW Girl has the mixture of ;

~ Evanescense

~ Dixie Chicks

~ LeAnne Rimes

My personal fav is this song , entitled Porcelain Heart…

Broken heart one more time
Pick yourself up, why even cry
Broken pieces in your hands
Wonder how you’ll make it whole

[Chorus:]
You know, you pray
This can’t be the way
You cry, you say
Something’s gotta change
And mend this porcelain heart of mine

Someone said "A broken heart
Would sting at first then make you stronger"
You wonder why this pain remains
Were hearts made whole just to break

Creator only You take brokenness
And create it into beauty once again

Tattoos and Reflections

Thursday, October 18th, 2007

Driving past the city lights all by myself, my imagination starts to wander…

I talked to God, to send me an angel , from the heavens above…send me back the angel i lost and took for granted…coz all i do , is cry, plz send me an angel to wipe the tears from my eyes.

No matter wat perceptions all ppl have about love, mine differs…i’ll keep comin back for more, and keep my head high in the fire to hope maybe sooner o later , i’ll get wat im askin for.

As i listened to the radio, u are in my head, swimming forever in my head and tangled in my dreams. All the songs we used to listen to, it reminds me of how it was before. 

No matter wat ppl say about life, again, perception differs…i will fight for my victory, i learn each time i bleed as i tattooed u in my heart. Truth is indeed a stranger to me, i no longer know wats tangled in my head…so each day as i set my soul free, i am revealin each day of the past so as to live in a beautiful lie…to ease the pain. This is cheatin i know…but nth can be done further more.

I cant waste time no more, so im giving myself a moment in the past…but haste, do not worry about me, im living every moment as if it is my last one…

Coz while living in every moment, it WON’T even change ANY moment, still, a part of me and u lives on in my heart, i’ll never regret and the memory of u marks everything i do.

JuZ like a tattoo, i’ll always have you…in my heart…

Juz like a reflection in the mirror, u’ll forever be on the other side…

***  KIN TEO LeH……keke…im juz tryin to be poetic, all the above is a fiction  ***

cAffIEnE OVeRdOSE

Wednesday, October 17th, 2007

INSANITY IS DRILLING THRU ME….

HAD 4 CUPS OF COFFEE TODAY….

SO AWAKE…

MAKES MY MIND TWIRL NON-STOP…

TWIRL AND TWIRL, IT ALSO COMES BACK TO ONE SAME OLD THING!!!

SIEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

aS WAT fEnN & i qOUtE : ADD OIL VEGE….& DEN bCOM fRIEd vEgE….